"I'm not sure of what i see, Cupid don't mess with me..."
"By their fruits, ye shall know them. Are grapes picked from thorns or figs from thistles?" (Matthew 7.16)
How's everyone doing? Hope you are all having a great week. My week is going great, i arrived chicago yesterday, the weather is lovely here plus my fam here live close to the beach, how lovely is that. Let the shopping and beach trip beginnnn!!!! lol
I decided to do a post on signs... not zodiac signs silly!!! I don't believe in all that jibberish, lol. By signs, i mean behavioural traits people exhibit that help you judge their character. For the purpose of this post, i'd be focusing on serious relationships.
There are certain things people do that should bring us to the realisation that 'i need to run from this dude/babe'. Things that should bring us to the realisation that we are incompatible with some people, that should make us walk without looking back, in some cases run as fast as our legs can carry us.
I once dated this guy that thought it was okay to be rude to his mum and elder sisters. He thought it was ok to use to words 'bitch' or 'fat bitch' in the same sentence as his mum or sisters. He also had major temper issues, apparently that was his excuse for bad mouthing his family. I was always told that you can tell how a man will treat his girlfriend/wife from how he treats his mum and his sisters. It really bothered me at the time that he had no regard for his mum or sisters, instead of me to leave the fool, i thought but he is really sweet to me, he is just a little immature, i'm sure he'd outgrow that awful behaviour. This goat was also a selfish mofo; all he thought about 99% of the time was himself. I thought he'd grow out of that too... boy was i wrong!
The thing is, some things are black and white whether we like to admit it or not. Certain kinds of behaviour are just not acceptable!
A man that has no regard for his Mother and Sisters cannot possibly know how to treat women. If he shouts at his ma, dont think because he shags you he wont shout at you, he will! and no my love he is not boyfriend material talk less of husband material, get rid of him fast!!! On the other hand, if a man treats his mum like a queen and his sisters like his princesses, you should hold on to him; i can tell you that i have first hand proof of that.
A sign to look out for in a potential dominating, voilent wife beater/control freak; if a man thinks it is ok to shout at you like a dog, to swear at you, or talks to you like you are 5 years old, and almost slaps you because his food is not ready or drags you by your hair or holds your arm till it hurts... honey, chances are he won't make a loving husband.
A man who believes women belong in the kitchen and have no place is elsewhere is certainly not boyfriend or hubby material(not for me at least) or a dufus that thinks its ok for men to cheat but not for women. Hisssss!
Just so it does not look like i'm picking on men, there are signs to look for in women as well.
Some women do not believe in cooking, lol, they don't know how to cook, they don't like to cook, they do not see the necessity... thing is some men don't mind, but some really do... I once heard this girl say "me, i can't cook for any man" lol! dudes you might want to check that. Some girls do not have any motherhood plans, neither do they believe in wifery, some don't see why they should have to clean up after anyone.
These signs, are just some of the million-gazillion signs to look out for in people, they should not be taken for granted.
Anyways people! Take care! I'm going to the beach mehn... lol
'Ef babe'
